你还在烦恼孩子的拖延症?这里有妙招

文 / 智慧山
2018-03-21 11:08

半年前:今天开始我就要好好背单词了,abandon……

三个月前:我要背单词了,abandon……

一个月前:背单词,背单词,abandon……

今天:我爱背单词,abandon……

你还在烦恼孩子的拖延症?这里有妙招

大家有没有遇到上面这样的事呢?每次开始决定做一件事,但是坚持不了不多又放弃了,今天就和小编一起来改变这个坏习惯吧!

时间是人生最宝贵的资源,对于古人来讲,时间就是未来,而对于今天的我们来讲,未来已来。

明代钱福的《明日歌》一诗中曾七次提到“明日”,反复告诫人们要珍惜时间,今天的事情今天做,不要拖到明天,不要蹉跎岁月。世界上的很多东西都能尽力争取和失而复得,只有时间难以挽留,人的生命只有一次,时间永不回头。

你还在烦恼孩子的拖延症?这里有妙招

明日歌

Song of Tomoorrow

明日复明日,明日何其多。

Tomorrow comes and again comes tomorrow,

Tomorrows are like rivers that endlessly flow.

我生待明日,万事成蹉跎。

If all my things are put off till tomorrow,

My time wasted to no purpose will brew woe.

世人若被明日累,春去秋来老将至。

All mortals are tired for the sake of tomorrow,

The passage of time will make them old before they know.

朝看水东流,暮看日西坠。

In the morning they see water eastward running,

At dusky they see the sun in the west low hanging.

百年明日能几何?请君听我明日歌。

How many tomorrows are in your lifetime, do you know?

Please listen to me sing the Song of Tomorrow.

延(Beating Procrastination)

你还在烦恼孩子的拖延症?这里有妙招

  • 帮孩子认识时间的价值

Help your child understand the value of time

  • 多一些鼓励和奖赏

More encouragement and rewards

  • 让磨蹭付出代价

Let the friction pay the price

  • 不能责备打骂

Don't blame and scold

  • 让孩子觉得“快得值”

Make your child feel "the value of the fast"

  • 教会孩子必要的技能

Teach your child the necessary skills

  • 消除分心因素

Eliminate distractions

  • 拒绝包办代劳

Refuse to arrange for agency

  • 增加紧迫感

Increase the sense of urgency

你还在烦恼孩子的拖延症?这里有妙招

TODAY is the best time to start

抓住稍纵即逝的今天

不要把任何计划推迟在未知的明天

善待时光,时光也会善待你

诗歌对人的影响

始于幼时,却愈久愈烈

年少时识记,笑着读诗,

大声诵文,心中淡漠无感

年长时识记,

每每遇到以为过不去的坎坷

低声读诗,泪目诵文

却能在古人的情感共鸣中找到勇气

越读越让人激情澎湃,豪气干云

经典咏流传,永留心间,伴我前行

Seize the present day.

Don't put off any plans until tomorrow.

Be good to time, and time will be good to you.

The influence of poetry on people.

It begins at a young age but grows stronger.

When I was young, I remembered and read poetry with a smile.

Chanting loudly, the heart is indifferent.

When you're older,

Every time I met a bumpy road.

Read the poem in a low voice.

But can find courage in the emotional resonance of ancient people.

The more you read, the more passionate you are.

The classics are circulating, never mind, accompany me to move forward.

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